Saturday, May 12, 2018

Crazy Catholic Question #140: Conscience


CCQ #140: What do I do if my informed conscience does not agree with church law?

A couple weeks ago I attended Mass at another parish. The priest preaching during Mass made reference to the reality that our current immigration policy is morally wrong. At that point a couple of people stood up and walked out, obviously very upset with his remarks. This reminded me of a piece on Conscience Formation written by my former colleague, Sr. Mary Ann Dixon, O.P. I’ve edited and adapted some of her work below.

We all hold opinions on a number of issues. Some of these opinions are well informed and some are made with little conscious effort. In most cases, our experiences lead to values, which help us form opinions. But how do we navigate our moral stance without reducing it to an opinion?  How do we keep an authentic moral compass?

Morality is a concrete response to the things we believe, and our Church has, of course, over the centuries, made many statements about morality. Some subjects we have taught as sinful include: contraception, abortion, the death penalty, nuclear war, homosexual activity, domestic violence, war of aggression, and economic exploitation…among others.

As faithful Catholics, we do not have the option of selecting some teachings for consideration and dismissing others “because we do not agree with that.” Rather, we are called to the arduous process of forming our conscience. This process is, in itself, the teaching of our Church. Once we have done this work, we are obligated to follow the conclusion of our informed conscience, whether it conforms to Church law or not (CCC Article 6: 1790, 1800). We can offend this teaching by blindly obeying Church law without any discernment or by totally ignoring Church teaching, again without any discernment.

Authentic discernment or conscience formation calls us to consider several aspects of moral decision-making. 
  
1.  Church Teaching  Formation      
We may have learned that we form conscience by following the law of the Church, but if that were the complete truth there would be no room or need for discernment. Rather, we are called to seriously attend to church teaching and place ourselves “under the influence” of Church law. We must know the law, the value implicit in the law and, if possible, the situation out of which the teaching was articulated.  For example, prohibition of artificial contraception was articulated in 1930 in the aftermath of Margaret Sanger’s establishment of Birth Control Clinics in 1923 and the World Population Conference in 1926. At that time Pius IX said, “the conjugal act is destined primarily by nature for the begetting of children, and that those who frustrate its natural power…are branded with the guilt of grave sin.” (Casti Cannubi) The Church’s teaching on artificial contraception was reiterated by Paul VI in Humanae Vitae, although in this document a concession was made to the reality that conjugal love had a parallel purpose: it also nurtured the love relationship between husband and wife. So, we, as Church, grew in our recognition that sex is not only for the purpose of procreation, but also has unitive properties for married couples.

2.  Wisdom of the Community
Church law is not enough, however. The Church also calls us to consult other sources of expertise in the area about which we are making a decision; maybe a doctor or counselor, a spiritual director or an expert on the subject. For example, in war, we should know the Church’s teaching on just war and the context in which that teaching was written. Then we must ask, “Do these criteria still apply given the development of weapons since that teaching was articulated?” What has history taught us about the causes and effects of war?

3.  The Lived Experience
Besides consulting Church law and current experts on an issue, we are asked to look at our life situation, its demands, its limitations and its realities. What has been my experience? What do I know from the realities in my life?  

4.  Scripture
Our sacred texts often do not address specific moral questions – for example nuclear weapons did not exist in the first century, so we can’t expect to find any specific direction on that topic. We can always find “one liners” in the Bible to make our case, but that would be a misuse of Scripture. Truly, the Bible can be used to justify virtually any behavior if taken out of context; divorced from its original language and meaning. With Scripture, it is important to be attentive to an overall spirit that captures a value rather than to try to find the right quote or verse and a solid inquiry may necessitate consulting a theologian or scholar. We also have to be faithful to our Church’s teaching about Scripture – that we study and interpret it rather than accept a literal reading of the Scripture.

5. Finally, along with the study, searching and reflection, we must pray. We must humbly present ourselves before a loving God and pray for direction – not the direction that someone else tells us, but the direction from within ourselves. We stand before God saying, “Being as honest and thorough as I could be, this is what I think my decision must be.” Then we are obligated to follow our conscience.  At this point, no one has a right to say our decision is morally wrong.

Can we make mistakes? Yes.  Can we fool ourselves?  Yes. But if we have put effort into our discernment, we have integrity as an ally.  We stand before God having followed an authentic process of discernment. This is what our Church asks of us…

Send your "Crazy Catholic Questions" Lisa Brown at dre@ctredeemer.org or read past columns at: http://crazycatholicquestions.blogspot.com.


Saturday, May 5, 2018

Crazy Catholic Question #139: 13 Reasons


CCQ #139: Do you think 13 Reasons Why is dangerous for our teens to watch?

I am not a mental health professional, so I am not qualified to answer that question, however, I AM a Mom and I have to say the advisory notice from our Oakland County Youth Suicide Prevention Task Force certainly caught my attention (see adjacent). Though I could only stomach watching 5 episodes of this high drama series with my own teenage daughter, we did talk at length about the themes touched on in the show and how all of us need to be thoughtful and careful about what we "ingest" as far as media/shows, not unlike we are attentive to our food choices. Because, ultimately, as the saying goes "we are what we eat" and whether we recognize it or not, shows like 13 Reasons Why DO shape our thoughts and our culture.

Like it or lump it, 13 Reasons HAS become one of the shared stories among our teens - just like Happy Days and The Brady Bunch were part of our shared culture growing up. Remember Bobby's unfortunate discovery of the bad luck Tiki charm found on the Brady's trip to Hawaii? Even if you didn't see the episode, you know what I'm referring to. The bottom line is, we can ban watching 13 Reasons in our homes, but that is not going to shield our children from the discussions about it with their friends. The tidal wave force of our culture, of which this show is a part, WILL be part of our children’s formation. We have little to no control over that. The way we respond as parents to this presence is crucial. As the Youth Task Force mentions, conversation is key. If our teens watch the show, perhaps we parents can view it as an opportunity, even an invitation, to talk about these important topics that effect our young people today. 

Send your "Crazy Catholic Questions" Lisa Brown at dre@ctredeemer.org or read past columns at: http://crazycatholicquestions.blogspot.com.